Wasted time on a first date again? Not finding the good match before your first date?
I know one client who is single. She searches for a boyfriend. She met some men. Then it turned out she was not satisfied. She says “oh I wasted my time again.“ Dating and getting to know the person are the best way to check good match. Without this, you don’t know a person. But let’s say you don’t have too much time for many dates. Is there any way to avoid non-ideal match beforehand? Me as a palm reader, if I really need to know the person beforehand, I would surely take a look at his/her hand. Of course, it’s my occupation. Then if hands are not available, I would check his/her birthday. For me this is it. (But actually in my case I don’t do this for dating. I will write the reason another time).
Non spiritual way of knowing non-ideal match beforehand
But let’s talk about non spiritual way today. There is a super simple check you can do (both men and women). You just “briefly” take a look at his/her posts on facebook. Unless the person is an inactive user who does not post at all, you can see some posts. Here “briefly” is the key. You do this only to get your first impression and nothing more.
What is the first impression from his/her SNS?
You see some posts. You might feel cool, good, bad. You might think the person is nice. You might think the person is little too much. Or you might think — nothing. Completely neutral. Here, trust your first impression. Our instinct and first impression have power. If you felt that the person was not cool and somehow your heart rejected the person, there must be a reason. In this case, you might feel the same way on your first date. This means you could avoid non ideal match beforehand. You don’t want to judge the person so fast? Of course, if you can go on a date and get to know the person well, this is the best. I always recommend you do so. But some people just don’t want to waste too much time for non necessary dates. Then you can use the method above. If you felt not cool, then don’t go.
What if you feel nothing?
What if you felt nothing – neutral? This actually happens often. You took a look at the person’s posts. Then you don’t know what to think. Then this is a go for it sign. Because you don’t know. Go and see. I saw enough successful couples from “I don’t know” impression as well. Again, only “briefly” check is enough. Maybe few minutes and nothing more. You just ask your instinct. If you are single, I hope you will have good dates in the future! Good luck!